Big Mistakes and Bigger Lessons
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Some great lessons come from the mistakes we make…
When was the last time you made a mistake? I know sometimes it’s not easy to admit it. We don’t want to feel like we don’t know what we are doing, or that we did something wrong.
Usually when we make a mistake we can have different reactions, we might dwell on it and maybe talk to ourselves. We might get upset and kick ourselves or we could also feel down, and that we didn’t know any better.
Lots of emotions with deal with, some people might be able to keep it cool and balanced and that’s great and if you are able to control that. I have to admit that although I tried, to keep my cool, there is frustration inside, but also my brain starts looking for solutions and answers, I start questioning things.
Don’t think because I write this blog I don’t make any money mistakes, those have been some of my biggest lessons in my financial life, and I pass those to my kids and whoever is willing to listen.
I had an incident a few weekends ago, and it had to do with my car. My breaks broke in the middle of the night and I could not stop on a red light, I was fortunate enough that nothing happened just a scare and I was close to a friend house and I parked it there. The break was literally on the floor, wow never seen that before.. yea some people were laughing.
Well four weeks before, I took my car to a mechanic that I was referred to my someone I trusted. So I did, he did the work and charged me, not cheap.. he said he didn’t have a debit machine etc and asked for cash, first red flag… so I got the cash and paid and the person that referred me was the witness. The bill was to come later and he was preparing it .. another red flag never received it. There was a noise in my car that wasn’t going away. I called and dropped by and left messages no luck!! then the incident happened.
See, I usually take my car to the dealership, but everyone tells me they charge an arm and a leg, etc so this time I thought ok I will try this. Although my car knowledge is not bad, I guess it is important to say here that I am a female and I feel that I am treated a little different, I could be wrong, but I’m not the only one that thinks that way, with females and mechanics. At the dealership, I never had problem and have guarantee, plus it’s important to them to keep me as a customer not make a quick buck.
Is it difficult to admit? yes!! absolutely. I should have listen to my gut, my intuition those red flags. I will tell you by experience that this has worked for me, to pay attention to what my intuition is telling me, and so far it has been correct. By facing and admitting our mistakes we can take responsibility, make corrections and grow and not blame others. Where did we go wrong? What could we change and do better next time? by reflecting on our mistakes we learn the lesson and we can pass that on to others. Next time remember the bigger the mistake the bigger the lesson and that’s life, avoid the drama just face what it is fix it make it better next lesson. I must say this is probably one of the most difficult blogs I’ve written since it exposes another side of my life, but I also think in the sharing there is also much more learning.
I was finally able to fix my car with a trusted mechanic, after I told him the story. I had a few opinions and help from my brother in law how I trust, it all worked out in the end.
Don’t be afraid to make a mistake, it makes you more authentic, recently I read Steve Jobs made tons of them and it didn’t turn out so bad after all.
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